Crystal was right in his character in Harry met sally when he said that women cant be friends with men as there is always the part of sex that comes into play between them. It can be said that friendships with a female started just because you were attracted towards them to strike up a conversation. When it became clean that there is no possibility of having a romantic relationship, that one thing could turn out to be platonic. It can be seen that sometimes friends also indulge in the same activities as are taken up by lovers like those of late night phone calls, dinner dates and even sex.
It should be noted that sex is the most major aspect in this relationship and could lead to different feelings and also regret as well. if your intention is to keep the relationship at the friendship level, and if she wishes to have more, then that would surely put you in dilemma.
Here are some ways using which you could utilize it for some days, weeks and months following up that transition from friend to lover and keep up your friendship as strong as before.
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